ESFJs always have a straight, upright posture and the
body itself is often firm and slim. In fact it is rare to find an ESFJ
with a full figure, especially a male. Their figure can also be somewhat
elongated. ESFJs have a wide range of facial expressions. When receiving
logical information they react with a look of extreme concentration.
ESFJs facial details are usually fine but proportional. They like to
tell stories emotionally and in details. Some preferred topics of conversations
are movies, art and books. If they like a particular movie they will
often watch it several times.
ESFJs also can show a wide a range of emotions during conversation.
They have very characteristic negative emotions, periodically showing
indignation which can flare up without warning and which can die down
just as quickly. Their negative behaviour often cannot be explained
logically as they can create a drama from something that may seem unimportant.
During conversation ESFJs pay close attention to the ethics and good
behaviour of others. They like to give ethical evaluations and analyses
on who behaved well and who did not. They also watch that the norms
of politeness are obeyed. ESFJs react negatively to people who do not
obey ethical norms. This is why others can sometimes consider them to
be confrontational and difficult to live with. Many people believe ESFJs
could be very demanding and tactless.
ESFJs have got very characteristic movements. When walking they often
look like they are in a hurry. In fact, ESFJs always seem to be in a
hurry. They are always going somewhere or visiting someone. They often
seem to be overloaded with work that is not so urgent. They do not like
to be criticised on this point and can sometimes take offence.
ESFJs take very good care of their appearance. They always show good
taste in clothes, making sure that everything is in harmony and that
colours are perfectly matched. When choosing clothes ESFJs always rely
on their own taste. They will not purchase a fashionable item if it
is not compatible with their own physique. They always wear the right
clothes for the occasion.
When explaining something ESFJs often repeat specific details again
and again and keep asking if they have been understood. By doing this
they can easily offend as it can seem that they think their interlocutor
is stupid. However, this is not the case. ESFJs repeat themselves because
they are never sure if they have been clear and logical enough. ESFJs
like to talk about people they know. They easily make new friends, because
of their sociability and friendly approach. From friends ESFJs demand
ESFJs do many things motivated by pure enthusiasm, but they always show
practicality and a sharp-wit in business matters. They always try to
buy the best quality goods. If these goods do not live up to their expectations
they do not hesitate to complain. Items can be old but they must be
of good quality. ESFJs have an excellent eye for composition and can
create a warm atmosphere from nothing.
ESFJs are incredibly hospitable and are always trying to surprise their
guests with something unusual. ESFJs work on the philosophy that guests
should first be fed and then entertained. However they can sometimes
be over the top with offers of food as they have difficulties judging
when enough is enough.
ESFJs pay good attention to health matters and the general well being
of themselves and their family. For example, after visiting a doctor
they always want an accurate diagnosis in order to decide the method
of cure for themselves. When someone helps ESFJs with home matters they
appreciate it very much. The fact that someone helps them is more important
than the actual result.