ENFJs often have slim arms, legs and torso. They look
rather slow and relaxed, especially among friends. However, there are
ENFJs that are very nimble but they tend to suffer from a lack of co-ordination,
giving the impression that they do it deliberately. ENFJs often have
big, straight, sharp noses. Their eyes usually have a melancholy look
about them and at the same time have that obsessed shine that shows
a great emotional charge.
ENFJs usually hold their heads up straight, often giving the impression
that they are looking above the heads of others. This can lead others
to believe that ENFJs are arrogant people. ENFJs clothes are usually
badly matched. There is often one particular detail that catches the
eye and is completely out of place with the rest. They are well aware
of this and therefore pay close attention to their wardrobe and are
suspicious of any outside evaluation.
ENFJs enjoy the company of people who give off plenty of positive emotions.
They like and in fact need to laugh in order to discharge the emotional
energy that accumulates within. Their own emotions are of a dramatic
nature, which they try hard to control. Sometimes however ENFJs can
unexpectedly explode attracting unwanted attention to themselves.
ENFJs always warn others about impending trouble. They often dramatise
reality a little too much as they seem to see the world in shades of
grey. When interacting, they are sometimes parasitic and intrusive with
their opinions and comments. ENFJs often express their true opinions
during conversation as they find it difficult to keep them to themselves.
They will often talk to themselves even if there are many people around.
ENFJs posses the ability to be great orators as they know how to paint
speeches in many colours and how to keep the attention of the listener.
Besides containing dramatic emotions, their speeches often contain sharp
sarcasm and powerful bitterness. ENFJs know well how to combine humour
with tragedy. As a result their narratives are always breathtaking.
ENFJs are inclined to trust only official published information. However
they like gossip and discussing the details of peoples private lives,
especially famous people, movie stars etc. ENFJs like to fantasise,
often developing the same subject over a period of time. They also have
the ability to persuade others that their opinions are right. Their
completed projects are global in comparison to what they were when they
were began. They have also tendency to create problems where there are
not any and moreover to convince others of it.
ENFJs respect hierarchy and relate to people accordingly. If a person
is in a lower position, their interaction can be cold and disrespectful.
However, their behaviour towards someone in a higher position than themselves
will be tactful and humble. They believe in the concept of leadership
and leaders. ENFJs also have tendency to behave aristocratically. They
can give the impression that they are from noble families. At the same
time they are very polite and correct.
ENFJs do not like to work if someone is there, observing them. They
really do not like others to see how they manage their homes and day
to day matters. Because of this they often send other people on missions
with various instructions in order to get rid of them so they can work
ENFJs have no problems undertaking very difficult tasks and projects
or working long unsociable hours. ENFJs strongly believe that human
potential is unlimited. They often believe in a wide range of mystical
phenomena, religion, the evil-eye and omens. They like to spend some
time alone in order to contemplate life and the role of humans. "To
be or not to be" is a question that ENFJs may ask themselves regularly.